tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post3974631414323914324..comments2023-10-21T06:18:41.537-05:00Comments on Fighting Monsters with Rubber Swords: A brief IEP updateRobert Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15462451435441751837noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-57692288865485928872011-05-31T16:03:05.229-05:002011-05-31T16:03:05.229-05:001) Please say that you can include "I am the ...1) Please say that you can include "I am the final arbiter ..." on your business cards. PLEASE!?!<br /><br />2) Please, as soon as the marimba is accessible, take a new photo, with the eyepatch, for the management photo. Because that would open up a whole new level of Awesome.<br /><br />Look upon my eyepatch and marimba, ye assmonkeys, and despair.<br /><br />(You could gird yourself for anticipated craptastic school meetings in such a fashion, as well.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-77923244260711006432011-05-31T12:46:21.197-05:002011-05-31T12:46:21.197-05:00Just read your new rules. I love that the Manageme...Just read your new rules. I love that the Management has an eye patch.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03365582623380288038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-42911819294747381722011-05-31T12:44:30.767-05:002011-05-31T12:44:30.767-05:00I'm so glad to hear that you walked out of the...I'm so glad to hear that you walked out of the meeting feeling like your concerns were heard. You're right: that's no small thing.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03365582623380288038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-91450954582626501072011-05-31T09:25:49.572-05:002011-05-31T09:25:49.572-05:00Just a quick note to say how avidly I follow your ...Just a quick note to say how avidly I follow your blog and your journey. You open a door on an oft-closed process regarding the IEP, and in so doing, you make things just a little less isolated for the rest of us. No small thing, that.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10770544042606537348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-55508381927935941842011-05-30T23:42:35.406-05:002011-05-30T23:42:35.406-05:00Glad that you were heard at your IEP meeting. Whe...Glad that you were heard at your IEP meeting. When I was a special ed teacher I always wanted parents to understand that I really believed we were a team, all wanting what was best for their child--but that they were the experts in their child. I was very disappointed (and angry) that the opposite happened when I was the parent of the special needs child. I had many conferences where I had to be insistent and tough (glad I knew the lingo and my rights). I ended up helping other parents navigate the system, too. <br />After a number of years and conferences, and me just getting more defensive and angry at the system and so-called professionals, and a teacher who actually e-mailed me that he did not have to respond to me because the IEP did not apply to his class--and the director of spec. ed tried to make excuses for that (Incidently, that e-mail was forwarded to the dean and I believe that teacher is no longer there and they have a new spec ed director). I finally had a conference that turned it around. At one conference a regular ed teacher was invited, and he did not even know my kid. I was really pissed off. But this teacher came up with a suggestion that no one had ever made before--it was a great idea and he has won my respect and admiration. Sometimes, it works out really well.<br />My long winded message is--parents are the experts in their own children and have to stay on top of things and advocate for their child (as you do). But sometimes, there is someone unexpected on the sidelines who can really make a difference.fernhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08629248553438495522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-59267024058275627042011-05-30T18:35:23.407-05:002011-05-30T18:35:23.407-05:00Hey Rob, I wrote you an email about a week ago. I ...Hey Rob, I wrote you an email about a week ago. I live in Plano as well, so I thought that was a neat coincidence. If you can find the time to reply back, I'd love that as well! I am borrowing the memoir from a friend, and almost two weeks in I realized that you and Schuyler signed the cover page, and I was in awe. I had no idea my friend and you guys have met. I am liking the book so far and would love to hear from you, only if you have the time to. Happy Memorial Day! Love, LucyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-44888278710140317262011-05-29T09:14:49.249-05:002011-05-29T09:14:49.249-05:00Speaking of marimbas, here is Evelyn Glennie speak...Speaking of marimbas, here is Evelyn Glennie speaking at TED and performing on the marimba. She is the first person in the western world to make a career as a solo percussionist. She is also profoundly deaf. <br /><br />http://www.ted.com/talks/evelyn_glennie_shows_how_to_listen.htmlLaurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00419941197932279945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-87270915263221654092011-05-28T12:36:30.272-05:002011-05-28T12:36:30.272-05:00As a teacher of students with special needs I real...As a teacher of students with special needs I really appreciate parents sharing their IEP successes and non-successes. I think it helps me be a better teacher and advocate for the students with whom I work. Thanks for sharing your life. I hope all the positives keep working for you guys.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08188442892632236614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-1040825016187908052011-05-27T21:10:57.428-05:002011-05-27T21:10:57.428-05:00I think the best comparison I ever heard was, &quo...I think the best comparison I ever heard was, "Look, I don't come into your house off the street and start insulting your taste in decor and calling you unsavory things and picking fights. Why would I let you come into my figurative house on the Internet and do those things to me?"<br /><br />Go Rob! Make those jerks play in someone else's neighborhood.Kelseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10725950596343398197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-87749106036021266292011-05-27T20:55:37.918-05:002011-05-27T20:55:37.918-05:00Your blog, your rules -- hear that, all you assmon...Your blog, your rules -- hear that, all you assmonkeys! <br /><br />Asshats and asswipes . . . you're next.<br /><br />Very glad that you and Julie took away positive vibes from the IEP meeting. Fingers crossed that the sense of being understood will continue and net Schuyler the services she needs without too much of a shit storm.<br /><br />Enjoy your holiday weekend!!StaceyEsqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03100246280019995999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-69529390550111863932011-05-27T09:59:34.926-05:002011-05-27T09:59:34.926-05:00But assholery on your part IS allowed? heh hehBut assholery on your part IS allowed? heh hehKim in Alaskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07927333620156223949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-474464671030352532011-05-27T08:18:11.193-05:002011-05-27T08:18:11.193-05:00I think the correct term is "assmonkeyness&qu...I think the correct term is "assmonkeyness" although I've heard "assmonkeydom" used in some circles. Maybe the usage is regional and "assmonkeyhood" is preferred where you're from. Who am I to judge?robynczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07491819229968081861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-5862250862274507832011-05-26T23:41:58.556-05:002011-05-26T23:41:58.556-05:00Ha ha ha ha ha!! LOVE your new post rules. I thi...Ha ha ha ha ha!! LOVE your new post rules. I think I am going to make those my new house rules.....SunSpotBabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01458795387822122072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-70711907278245239902011-05-26T22:16:29.090-05:002011-05-26T22:16:29.090-05:00My fun new rules for comments.<a href="http://www.schuylersmonsterblog.com/p/my-rules-for-comments.html" rel="nofollow">My fun new rules for comments.</a>Robert Hudsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15462451435441751837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-78028540337953308142011-05-26T21:51:40.628-05:002011-05-26T21:51:40.628-05:00I'm working on the marimba, I've got feele...I'm working on the marimba, I've got feelers out. I'll let you know if we hit a dead end!Robert Hudsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15462451435441751837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-5410776449620499012011-05-26T21:49:17.397-05:002011-05-26T21:49:17.397-05:00Rob--I'm surprised, with your connections, tha...Rob--I'm surprised, with your connections, that you haven't come up with a marimba. Would you like me to make some inquiries among my band friends here in Austin? I'm wind, not percussion, so I don't know the technicalities, but would a beginner in Austin use the same kit as a beginner in Plano?<br /><br />And I'm glad the meeting went well. I hope the bit that pissed you off resolves well and you guys can look forward to a positive and productive transition.robynczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07491819229968081861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-74046567087604409822011-05-26T21:35:04.225-05:002011-05-26T21:35:04.225-05:00(Yes, I deleted comments. Don't like it? Wan...<i>(Yes, I deleted comments. Don't like it? Want a place to say whatever you want? Start your own blog. It's easy.)</i>Robert Hudsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15462451435441751837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-43970743746244938882011-05-26T20:02:37.300-05:002011-05-26T20:02:37.300-05:00Rob, I'm so glad the IEP went so well. It'...Rob, I'm so glad the IEP went so well. It's always such a crap shoot, isn't it? (We seem to be having them nearly monthly; something's clearly not right!) I love that you and Julie felt heard. Sometimes, that's all it takes to make things smoother, right?Niksmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14715465327343655483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-24583607398647044512011-05-26T19:46:31.381-05:002011-05-26T19:46:31.381-05:00Hi Rob, I think it's great that the IEP went w...Hi Rob, I think it's great that the IEP went well. I have a 6 year old son, going into 1st grade and I had to reschedule my IEP so the special education director was there. At first I was a bit nervous because I had a couple of issues to discuss, but then after speaking with the director, I think they are listening. It definitely feels good to be heard! Good for you and your daugther :)bleuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17518180951950476888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22878815.post-35033475765412605392011-05-26T15:45:10.949-05:002011-05-26T15:45:10.949-05:00Great news to hear that someone actually listened!...Great news to hear that someone actually listened! This happens so few and far between. We too are going into an IEP meeting in a few short days for our son (who is also speechless) and going to First Grade.<br />Keeping our fingers crossed that with our new advocate beside us, that we get heard too.<br />Thank you for sharing your stuggles, its a relief to know that we aren't the only parents going through school crap.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168614114032225157noreply@blogger.com